Saturday, February 21, 2015

Getting Off the Beltway

In all the years I have driven up and down the East Coast on my way from Massachusetts to Florida, I have always skirted the downtown DC area by way of the Beltway. It has been on my list of places to visit, but never seemed like a good time. Last week was our school district's Winter Break, so Aurora and I hopped in the van and zipped 6 hrs down to DC. 

We had made virtually no plans. We had a hotel reservation and some ideas about taking the Metro into the downtown area. We had a dinner date planned with an incredible photographer and his wife... to talk about the business of photography. Other than that, I knew we wanted to see as many museums as we could fit into our short visit. 

Aurora had visited DC a few times with her mom years ago, always during the summer months. DC is mighty different in the dead of winter. The reflecting pool is drained. The grass is dead and frozen solid. Everyone was bundled up for an arctic blast when we arrived, despite the temps being around 30°F. We walked around in fleeces our first day, enjoying the respite from the wicked cold we left back home (-20°F with windchill). 

Washington DC was a fascinating place to visit. The museums on the mall could keep anyone busy for weeks! We only saw a few, despite that being our main goal. We saw the Native American Museum, the Natural History Museum, the Air and Space Museum, the Botanical Gardens and the Lincoln Memorial.

I'll post a few more images from our trip throughout this coming week. There was so much to see and enjoy that trying to cram it all into one blog post would be a huge disservice. Plus, there are just so many more fun images I want to share.

Friday, February 6, 2015

Look Away From The Camera and Please, Don't Smile.

Carol, playing in our kitchen a few years back. One of my favorite nights of food and music! 
Why do photographers expect their subjects to smile into the camera? Is anyone really happy to see the business side of a lens, staring at them across the space like a weapon? There is nothing friendly or inviting about being stared at by a device. I have struggled with this issue since I began taking photographs as a little kid (age six, for those who really want to know). Smiling eyes are certainly inviting, for sure... but telling someone to smile is like telling someone to "be happy"... on command. It has always struck me as artificial. I have preferred instead to capture the real underlying emotion. The unguarded moment where the true self appears... the moment that everyone recognizes and identifies with. The instant where the experience is shared without explanation or contrivance.

Nancy, vintage dress. 
This week as I have been editing images from weddings, in preparation for album design, what I have come to realize is that I love capturing that moment where no one is really aware that I am there. I am immersed in the interactions... rather than being the focus of that attention. No one smiles at me in that image...they are too busy smiling and talking and sharing with each other. Those are, without fail, my favorite images. Today I am sharing a few of my favorite images from the past few years. Images without smiles. Images where the subject isn't even necessarily looking at me. It is amazing what happens when you ask someone to look away from the camera. What appears and what slides away?

Nancy's first tattoo from Eddie Molina at Hand of Fate, Ithaca. 
Robert Dey, taken from outside the coffee shop in Trumansburg. 

Monday, February 2, 2015

Scars: Seen and Unseen

Fuji X-T1, 55-200mm, at Sunset in February, 2015.  As the sun set at 15°F, ten minutes of photographing was enough for me.

Last week I caught myself assuming that someone I only met three months ago must already know about all the things that happened five years ago. How could someone know me now, and not know all of the crazy things that have happened to me since September 2009? Assumptions of course are fraught with illusions and confusion. This led me to think about scars. What do we show and what do we hide? What do we share and what has to be pried out of us?

Taken in June of 2009. Nikon D80, 55-200mm  A warm summer evening sunset on Seneca Lake.
Back in June of 2009, as my family and I took some time to hunt for beachwashed bottle glass on the shores of Seneca Lake at Lodi Point, none of us had any idea how radically things could change. A month later, I had my fourth bout of diverticulitis. After meeting with a gastroenterologist, I was encouraged to have my colon resected. On the morning that my daughter went back to school, I went in for surgery. According to family and friends, I was fine for a few days post surgery, and then things went sideways. The anastmosis (the rejoining of the two bits of my large intestine) failed. No one at the hospital noticed that I was in massive uncontrollable pain.

The next thing I knew, I was waking up and was unable to speak. Over a month had passed with me in a coma as my body went through numerous surgeries to deal with the sepsis and peritonitis. On my end, I couldn't wrap my head around what had happened. I was still doped to the hilt with all sorts of sedatives and antibiotics and pain killers. By the time a month and a half had passed in the ICU, I was moved to the rehabilitation floor to begin relearning how to sit, stand, walk and feed myself.

Rather than delve into all of the awfulness that happened in the ICU, what I really want to explore is the shock of discovering how alien my new body was. Every scar tells a story. Most of the time, we remember how we got that scar... what we were doing, who we were with, and there's a story to be shared.

On my 9th day on the rehab floor, I was finally able to stand for more than 5 minutes. Muscles were slowly growing back. I was encouraged to try to shower on my own, albeit with multiple nurses supervising. They wheeled me in in my wheelchair... helped me transfer to the tiled bench. Cold as it was, feeling the water splashing on my legs was wild! It had been nearly two months since I had washed my hair! Holding onto the grab rails, I stood and showered slowly. Always keeping one hand attached to the wall, I slowly explored my body under the hot water.

I was terrified of the colostomy the surgeon had left me with. I had no clue how to care for it. That would come with time and instruction. Lots of trial and error. But under the running water it seemed perfectly normal to be getting it soaking wet. I was scared to get the huge abdominal wound wet. The dressing was soaked, but the nurses reassured me that they could re-pack the wound once I was back in my room.

Trying to settle my nerves, I tried to take an inventory. What was the same, what was new? My legs looked like they belonged to a 90 year old man. All of my muscle was gone. I had tiny thin legs that looked so incredibly alien. Scrubbing my armpits I was shocked to find my big muscular arms had become almost like rubber wings. With no muscle filling things out, the skin fell off my bones. I was vigorously scrubbing my ribs when I came across a tiny scar, maybe one inch long, running horizontally on my right side.

That was new. Hmmm. I asked the nurses what it was from. Neither one had any idea. I asked the next round of nurses that attended to my wound as I was repacked for the day. No one seemed to know what had happened. I couldn't imagine how it related to the gigantic wound on my belly, but just the same, I had no clue.

In the afternoon, after my sessions of occupational and physical therapy, I was wheeled back into my room. Nancy was asleep on the bed adjacent to mine. The nurses helped me transfer to my reclining chair. There was a protein shake waiting for me... gotta consume all that protein to help heal that wound!

When Nancy woke up, I asked her about the wound on my side. She started explaining about how during the coma I had retained a massive amount of fluid. At one point I apparently looked like the Michelin Man... hands like catcher's mitts. During this time, the peritonitis was raging through my body. They had been unable to close the main incision due to all of the swelling and fluid retention.

As Nancy explained things, I had fluid collecting in my third space...the space between my skin and my fascia...which normally isn't full of fluid. In the space behind my right lung, enough fluid had accumulated to collapse that lung. If that wasn't enough, I had also developed pneumonia, brought on by being intubated for so long. In order to drain the fluid from behind my right lung, they made a small incision between my ribs, inserted a drainage tube and proceeded to pull that fluid out of me.

Learning about that tiny scar helped me realize that so many things had happened to my body that I had no recollection of. When the surgeon and the nurses came to clean the big abdominal wound, they were always very polite and kind as they tended to it. Debriding is the term for removing dead skin cells during the healing process. Sounds a lot nicer than it looks. From my perspective, I couldn't see what they were doing. Even more strangely, I couldn't feel what they were doing. If you have ever had a cut on your skin, you know that feeling when someone touches it. It HURTS. This didn't hurt. I asked about that, fearing that maybe infection was making it so I couldn't feel it. Turns out it was a one-two punch. One; I was living on pain meds, via my patch. Two: I was growing new cells... and fibroblasts, those basic building blocks for my wound repair, had no nerve endings yet. They wouldn't grow back at all in some cases.

Which leads me to the second scar. Thanks to Nancy's nightly wound cleaning, the big wound finally healed completely five and a half months after I left the hospital (nearly 7.5 months after the first surgery). Five years later, I have spots on my belly that still have no sensation. I have had four additional surgeries to repair all the damage from the first surgery. For the most part, they have been successful. No one sees these scars. Now that the colostomy has been reversed, and the massive hernia (big as a football!) has been repaired, it is hard to imagine what it used to look like. No one passing me in the grocery store would ever guess what had happened to me.

Which I guess is what prompted this missive. Walking out on the ice at Lodi Point late last week, I thought about how dangerous it was to be scrambling on the ice, trying to take photos in the incredibly cold weather. Five and a half years earlier, I would never have given it a second thought. After all of the experience of fragility brought on by repeated surgeries over the past five years, there is a part of me that wonders when the "new normal" will feel like old hat. How long until there are new scars that have nothing to do with that god-awful surgical debacle?

In closing, let me say that there are tons of stories still to tell from that time in the coma. Some of those stories are intensely personal. Some are painful. Some are downright confusing. If you're curious, just ask. I am always willing to take the time to share. And maybe over time I will add those stories to this blog.

Thursday, January 22, 2015

Who Cares How Cold It Is?

All winter long, everyone complains about how cold it is in Upstate New York. Yes, it is cold. That's why we have a special name for this season. Winter. Sure as heck isnt Springtime. Despite the cold, a few days ago we had a warm spell. The sun came out (a real rarity this winter!)... and before noon we had temperatures getting above freezing. A day later the mercury gave up the ghost and it was back down in the low teens. What that does at Taughannock Falls is simply a marvel. The layers of ice accumulate, shear off, pile up, and repeat. As the ice gets thicker, it starts to become almost jade-like. In the fading light there is a luminous and mystical quality to the massive falls covered in ice.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

A Week Later

Taughannock Falls from the overlook, outside temperature of 0F. Wind chill was approx -20F.

When I went out for my walk yesterday, I knew full well that it was cold outside. The light has changed. The clouds move by in long streaks of grey. There are no birds fluttering to and fro.

But that didn't prepare me for the shock of it being so bitterly cold. Our driveway is gravel, and one of the odd things about gravel driveways is that they harden differently depending on soil moisture and depth of the hard freeze. Yesterday the driveway was a series of hard rolling divots, as though a giant had strolled by wearing cleats. Each protrusion a tiny frost lens pushing up. That should have been a clue.

By the time I had walked up the driveway and gathered the mail, I was downright cold. As anyone who has seen me without socks in February can attest, I generally don't get cold. So I picked up the mail and encouraged Georgia to get on with her business. She let me know as soon as she was done; she was ready to be back inside.

I added a few more layers in hopes of keeping warm on my walk. A snug cap with heat reflecting coating. Woolen mittens with fleece lining. By the time I was bundled up like the Michelin Man, I figured I was ready for anything winter could throw at me. Drive down to the park along roads so crusted with road salt that the warm(ish) air being blown around inside the van tasted seriously salty!

When I arrived at the North Point parking area at the state park, it was most decidedly empty. It was cold, sure. That made sense. What was wild was seeing the sublimation happening on the crashing waves in the lake. I had never seen anything like it.

My original plan was to walk the shoreline, then cut under the bridge and walk the gorge all the way down to the waterfall. It was my usual loop... just shy of 5K.

In the span of time it took me to walk the hundred or so feet from my van to the shoreline, my lips and mustache had frozen to the inside of the zipper of my parka (pulled up tight and high against the wind!). The ferocious wind made my goal of photographing the cold weather downright dangerous. I have never felt the warmth leave my body so fast. By the time I got off a dozen frames and turned back to the van, I couldn't feel my cheeks or fingers (despite all the layers!)

Back inside the warm van I decided to drive up to the falls overlook. Oftentimes the falls will ice over with majestic columns of ice left behind by all the spray. It seems to happen most often when the cold snaps are brutally quick like yesterday had been. The images I was able to capture of the falls were certainly worth the chill, but WOW! To think that kids were expected to stand outside to wait for the school bus in this weather is nuts. I was glad to see that schools were on a two hour delay today. I have to admit though, I am not sure how much it warmed up in those two hours.

Winter barred her teeth. And growled.

Friday, January 2, 2015

Greeting The New Year

Taughannock Falls, Trumansburg, NY -winter 2015, Fuji X100s

New Year's resolutions are made with the best intentions, but for most of us, seldom result in the changes we expect. Instead of resolving to change some part of my life that I feel is in need of fixing, I endeavor to focus on the parts that are working and that I want to see grow.

Perhaps that is bad for the home gym equipment industry who is convinced that we all need a treadmill, and elliptical trainer as well as a six hundred dollar juicer. Since none of those things have the appeal for me that a walk in the icy outdoors does, those sales pitches are lost on me.

Bad consumer, bad!

We tried the home elliptical trainer... it ended up gathering dust and acting as a coat rack. I bet there are millions of them doing exactly that. But we were promised that it would make us stick to our resolutions for the New Year. Hmmm.

It is hard to get outside to walk every day when the weather is cold. And snowy. Or icy. But the reward is many-fold. It isn't just about the physical fitness for me... there is the whole aspect of how walking outside relaxes my brain. It helps me find different ways to think about issues that are troubling me. Once those ideas have been wrangled and worries have been assuaged, then the creative ideas start to take off. It takes time. Sometimes it takes a lot of time. Trying to do it at the gym or on the home gym equipment, I could never "find" the time for that to happen. It was always a question of too many distractions.

Walking isn't something I think of as taxing. Granted, it is harder now than it was six years ago, before the whole surgical debacle. When I see someone in the grocery store using a motorized wheelchair I have to swallow hard. That was what the surgeons in the hospital said I would be using if I was lucky. Gives my daily walks a different look when viewed through that perspective.

I used to walk down our rural road with my headphones blaring. Then one of our neighbors was killed on her morning jog. I used to know all the people that live on our road, but in the past two years we have seen more than half of them move out, with renters taking their place. Not nearly as many people are out walking their dogs anymore. What does that say? Where has everyone gone?

I am not sure.

So where does this lead me today? I guess the dialogue I am having with myself is understanding why I walk. Realizing that there is so much that I get from the process, I am surprised at how hard it is to "make time" for it. After rereading photographer, David Hobby's post about how he walks 10 miles a day as a way of becoming a better photographer, I realized that there is something substantial there. The kernel of truth lies in the aspect of making time for a meditative process... one that can help relax, rejuvenate, and rekindle sleeping/exhausted parts of the brain. Why wouldn't I be able to make time for that? I guess that is something to think about while out on today's walk.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

The Magic of a New Year

If you had told me that in 2014 I would have seen this kid's face break into the biggest smile after seeing this Quetzlecoatalus fossil in Texas, I would have never believed it. When the New Year started last year, I had no major plans for the year.  Looking back, I can see where some things fell through completely. Other projects took off and soared!

Looking at this majestic fossil and the enormous beaming smile on my kiddo's face, my New Year's wish is that everyone's dreams take flight and in the process, they brighten the lives of those around you. Happy New Year!